家庭不仅是孩子成长的基础，也是教育的起点。然而，教养这条路并非一蹴而就，充满了试探与调整；每位父母、子女，都在教养过程中寻找自己与孩子、与父母间的平衡点。重要的是，能够在这过程中接受不足、学会成长，珍惜亲子相处时光。
教养无论好坏皆留痕
张慧慧（小学副校长）在一个大家庭中长大，家里有六位手足，再加上父母和婆婆，童年时家庭非常热闹。“我是家里最小的孩子，广东俗语中有句话‘孻仔拉心肝，孻女拉五脏’，意思是父母通常最疼爱最小的孩子，记得小时候爸妈外出买东西，总是会带着我和哥哥两人，爱护特别多。”
问及和父母的相处，她说，就一般传统家庭的亲子关系，父母全心全意照顾孩子、兄弟姐妹友爱：“印象最深刻的是爸爸在去世前跟我说的话，希望我好好照顾家里和妈妈。”
这句遗言，让她深刻体会到父亲对家庭的责任感和爱护，也让她更加珍惜家人之间的关系。
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