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职场面面观︱ 3招把“敌人”转化为“贵人”

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记者: 叶凤玲（整理）

在职场中，最难相处的人，往往不是明显的敌人，而是那些与你能力相当、彼此竞争，却又没有真正撕破脸的“敌人未满”。

他们可能是和你争取升迁机会的同事、经常被拿来比较的竞争者，也可能是理念不同、合作起来总有摩擦的伙伴。你不一定讨厌他们，却总觉得彼此之间隔着一道墙，偏偏他们也是职场中最难避开的关系。

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