（台北讯）55岁金钟视后苗可丽去年痛失母亲后，家中留下罹患帕金森氏症逾10年、并出现失智状况的高龄父亲。这一年来，她只要工作一结束便尽量赶回老家陪伴爸爸。适逢今年父亲节因台风取消工作，她更一早直奔高铁站返家，亲自替爸爸梳头、刮胡子及装上假牙，陪他度过温馨一天。
苗可丽曾坦言，照顾失智长者并不容易，“就像打仗，不管敌人有没有冲出来，你的备战状态就是24小时。”不过经过一年摸索，她也逐渐找到与爸爸相处的方法——顺着他的情绪与想法，让他先感到安心。
例如爸爸若突然说家中有小偷，她不会急着否定，而是马上回应：“我处理！你先吃饭！”先稳定父亲情绪，再慢慢处理状况。
母亲离世后，也让苗可丽更深刻体会人生无常。她透露，过去因工作忙碌，与家人相处时间不多，直到55岁才第一次主动亲爸爸，对她而言是一个很大的改变。
如今她把更多时间留给家人，陪爸爸聊天、整理仪容，尽量让他的日常过得舒服。她也直言，现在最在意的很简单，“只要爸爸开心，我就开心。”
苗可丽父亲节返家的片段曝光后，不少网民被父女互动打动，纷纷留言称赞她孝顺贴心，也有人感触表示：“我也好想我的爸爸。”
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