从小到大，小儿子没有几个朋友。因为社交和沟通上的障碍，他很难融入同龄人的圈子，他仿佛一直活在自己的孤岛里，看着身边的人来来往往，却没有人愿意理解他、接受他。许多时候，他就像一个透明人，存在着，却不被看见。
印象中，他在小学时曾经交到唯一的一个朋友。那是一个比他小２岁、却比他高出一个头的同学。可能不是同龄，这个同学可以跟他投契、同频。
有一次，校长召见家长，我们正在校长室里讨论学校教育的问题。突然我看见小儿子和那位同学有说有笑地从窗外走过。那一刻，我的心异常激动，因为那是我第一次看见他如此自然地和同学相处、如此开心地与人交流。
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