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压力大 染毒瘾 经理怕伤害妻儿 主动自首

(新加坡12日讯)管理着200多名员工的经理,因工作重压染上冰毒,随着毒瘾加深,产生幻觉,他担心自己会伤害妻儿,最终主动到警局自首。

新加坡《海峡时报》报道,现年53岁的罗岚(化名)在7岁时就从马来西亚搬到狮城读书,从小承受学习压力,但最后获得工程学硕士学位。

在职场上快速晋升的他,过后在半导体工厂成为经理,管理200多名的员工,薪水有5位数,还有爱他的妻儿。

如今已是新加坡公民的他说,当时那种持续不断的压力让他难以承受,为了完成工作,还废寝忘食和熬夜。

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2014年,他在一个派对上尝试了冰毒,让他感觉似乎长期累积下来的压力获得缓解。他当然知道它有多危险,但那时满脑子全是压力有多大,他需要逃离这一切。


冰毒起初能让他在晚上保持清醒,让他更有创造力。当有人说他白天看起来很疲惫时,但他会归咎于工作压力。

2015年,罗岚辞职后,毒瘾加深,尽管投递约2000份履历仍没找到工作,当时逃避生活的他从每两周吸食一次冰毒,变成几乎每天吸食。

他的妻子发现到他情绪低落,经常犯困,但他却声称是因失业所致。

罗岚的儿子当时只有8岁,他守着吸毒的秘密,想要维护名声,但他很快意识到自己变得容易发怒,开始出现幻觉。

为了保护家人,他终在2017年到警局自首,被送往戒毒所3个月。

考获第二个硕士学位

如今戒毒的罗岚,不仅考获第二个硕士学位,还担任辅导员协助瘾君子。

罗岚第一次戒毒后到餐厅当服务员,由于缺乏社区支持,他又开始吸毒,于2018年再次到警局自首,这次被判入狱5个月半。

戒毒期间,妻子不仅扛起家里的经济重担,还陪在他身边。罗岚在2019年出狱后,参与关爱之家的辅导项目,并成功戒毒。

罗岚回顾自己的经历时说,教育并没让他做好应对人生各种挑战的准备,像是如何应对压力,以及如何依靠社区帮助。

他在47岁时再次攻读第二个硕士学位,并在2022年加入关爱之家,帮助其他瘾君子。

他说,受过教育的人往往最固执,他们觉得不需要帮助,只需要硬扛过去,这种想法有时候这会让他们越陷越深。“重要的不是你知道多少,而是知道你身边谁在支持你。”



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