别了“超级阿嬷”! 精明寡母养大8子女 积累13房产
(新加坡25日讯)百岁阿嬷早年省吃俭用,凭借生意头脑和顽强意志,不仅拉拔孩子长大,甚至还积累13间房产,周一凌晨安详过世。
享年102岁的阿嬷林全宋,膝下有8名子女,丈夫于1964年患癌逝世。丧偶时,林全宋年仅44岁,却拒绝其他追求者,一句:“改嫁,家就散了”,独自撑起了一家九口,靠打杂养大孩子。
追忆当年含辛茹苦的养育之恩,孩子们不禁感叹母亲的毅力和智慧。

母亲林全宋过世,(左起)四儿子庄侯冠、大姐庄雅娟、二儿子庄侯和、私人助理许希耀和三儿子庄侯仁。
三儿子庄侯仁(71岁)受访时透露,父亲生前经营私人“银会”,但过世后不少人跑会,母亲咬紧牙关扛下债务。
“那时小妹只有4岁,母亲没读过书,靠洗衣服、打杂工养大我们。”
后来,母亲通过“银会”存到一点钱,精明地投资房地产,最终累积13间房产,包括店屋和公寓等。1976年,孩子们在母亲鼓励下出来创业开食堂,母亲投入了10万元,生意逐渐有起色,甚至扩展到经营酒店、种植园区等。当中,二儿子庄侯和(74岁,自雇人士)如今还将生意拓展到越南和马来西亚。
林全宋一家人感情深厚,早年分别住在加东阿德路私宅里,事后孩子各自成家,才陆续搬离。家人聘请了一位私人助理兼司机许希耀(69岁),陪伴母亲走到人生终点。
孩子们透露,母亲秉持当年省吃俭用的习惯,不爱到餐馆用餐,只喜欢子孙相聚家中吃饭。
林全宋的遗体停柩120号阿德路,并于27日出殡。
去年确诊冠病
庄侯仁也透露,母亲去年8月确诊冠病,痊愈后身体却慢慢衰弱,尤其是肾脏和肺部,不过22日探访时,母亲还很有精神。
怎料,隔天凌晨2点接到女佣通知,许希耀说阿嬷走前喘了三口气,才安详闭上眼睛。
四儿子庄侯冠(69岁)指出,常灌输他们“人虽穷但不能被别人看不起”,若和邻居孩子起争执,母亲定会先教训他们,决不让他人轻视。
丈夫在1964年过世,林全宋独自抚养孩子。
他说,私人医生早前告诉他们需做好心理准备,指母亲情况不乐观。母亲生命力虽顽强,撑过了两周,依旧等不到5月29日过生日,所幸孩子们早前在母亲节一同欢庆,陪她度过最后一次生日。
“我们在家里做大寿,大概有57人出席,当时她精神很好。”
庄侯仁说,他们全家在2014年到云南旅行,近94岁的母亲不需他人搀扶,亲自登上玉龙雪山,引起其他旅客啧啧称奇。
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许希耀透露,阿嬷虽然已百岁,却还很有活力,常要求去机场看一看,尤其爱看猴子。“我常带她去武吉知马山看山上的卫星,以及SOTA的旧建筑。她上周五还说想出去走走。”
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