难忘太太临终“我不想死” 黄日华愿为亡妻减寿
（香港讯）由黎芷珊主持的疗愈系访谈节目《单对单》即将播出，每集都会请来单身族做嘉宾，首集嘉宾请来“爱妻号”黄日华（华哥），以及“青春的秘密”米雪，二人分别带芷珊重游出生地九龙城及慢跑，与观众分享生活日常及单身如何也可活得自在。
华哥生活健康，闲时爱与好友踢足球锻炼身体。
去年五月，华哥与爱妻天人永诀，经过一年时间，华哥已逐步走出阴霾，更罕有地在节目中披露失去爱妻后的感受及痛苦。
华哥透露如何藉著好友与女儿芷晴的支持重拾生活正轨，他向芷珊透露之前与太太在九龙城留下不少回忆及足迹，纵然昔日快乐时光已无法重现，但现时重游旧地也会尽量回想开心事：“一定要懂得放下，要接受事实！”
黄日华一家三口。
对街坊情也极为重视的华哥，坦言失去妻子后，人生经历了重大转变：“之前我是24小时照顾她，她突然走了，好像做人没了目标，会不知道今天要做些什么”。
华哥也说：“好像很多时间剩下来了，因为最想照顾的人已经不在。见到床会想起她，见到衣柜的衣服又会挂念她，见到照片又会思念，心情不受控制很低落。”
黄日华带芷珊重游九龙城出生地。
华哥又谓难忘太太临终前痛苦表示“我不想死”，谈及看著爱妻意志力逐渐消失，华哥更是数度哽咽：“我见到真的很心痛，我常念经时都讲，你让她康复，我短十年命、廿年命都没所谓。”
华哥谓当一觉醒来发现已没有人睡在身旁时，他便真正意识到爱妻已不在身边，并慢慢开始适应另一种生活。
华哥与九龙城街坊十分熟稔，他透露闲时会直接致电街坊好友“求救”。
已走出阴霾的华哥，提起亡妻时，仍是难忍痛惜之泪。
黄日华是圈中出名的好丈夫、好爸爸。
黄日华与太太梁洁华。
黄日华和女儿感情很好。
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