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马来人出席华人丧礼苏菲雅：尊重与善意超越种族

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苏菲雅（右）强调，马来西亚社会真正需要的，不是把彼此分隔的界线，而是能够让人民彼此靠近的温度。

苏菲雅于斋戒月第23天，在清真寺完成开斋后，便立刻前往丧府探望失去丈夫的华裔安娣。

（怡保16日讯）针对“马来人是否可以出席华人丧礼”论，木威国会议员拿督倪可汉的特别事务官苏菲雅指出，人与人之间的关怀不应受种族或宗教界线限制，只要怀着尊重与善意，在他人悲伤时刻给予陪伴，本就是人之常情。

苏菲雅近日在面子书分享一段个人经历指出，在斋戒月第23天，她收到一名华裔长者发来的简讯，内容写道：“我的老公不在了，走了……”

她表示，当下看到这则消息时心情沉重，深知对方正承受失去至亲的巨大悲痛。

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苏菲雅于斋戒月第23天，在清真寺完成开斋后，便立刻前往丧府探望失去丈夫的华裔安娣。

“当晚我在清真寺完成开斋后，便立刻赶去探望这位安娣。”

她说，当自己抵达灵堂时，现场不少人投来目光，但她认为，尊重逝者、安慰家属，是任何人都会做的事，与种族背景无关。

“当一个人失去至亲的时候，眼前看到的，不再是马来人、华人或印度人，而是一个正在承受巨大悲伤的人。”

她指出，在那样的时刻，一句关心的话语或一个简单的拥抱，都可能成为对方最需要的力量。

苏菲雅强调，马来西亚社会真正需要的，不是把彼此分隔的界线，而是能够让人民彼此靠近的温度。

“在人生最艰难的时刻，如果我们愿意放下身分与标签，走过去静静陪伴对方，那一刻，我们不是因为种族而相聚，而是因为人性与善意。”

她认为，一个更理想的马来西亚社会，应当先看见“人”，再看见种族。

苏菲雅这篇不分种族的心情贴，获得逾2万个赞及856个分享，更获得广大网友赞赏。

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