（吉隆坡28日讯）一名年近40岁女网友透露，交往一个月的男友为了两人能有更多相处时间，建议她日后见面在他家留宿一天，不料父母却以“华人传统”反对她在外过夜，让她感到十分困惑。
该女网友今日向My中文电台投稿，说她和男友的住家来回超过2小时，两人交往后，男友便提议日后要女友留下来过夜，第二天再送她回家，以便两人可以多一些相处时间。
“但我的家人说结婚前在男方家过夜会被别人讲闲话，就算分房也不可以。”
女网友续说，家人也要求她无论多迟都要在当天回家，更不用说让她与男友单独旅行；对此其男友觉得她没有主见，她不知道应不应该违抗父母的命令。
这篇投稿在上传后引来热议，许多网民都认为以40岁的年龄而言，帖主未免过于妈宝；不过也有网民认为，帖主和男友毕竟只交往了一个月，父母担心女儿吃亏也是正常的事。
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