亡母化蝶助走出伤痛 黄芷晴吃饭备碗筷追忆
（香港讯）艺人黄日华爱妻梁洁华于2013年验出患有急性骨髓性白血病，抗癌7年后，去年5月不敌癌魔离世。
经历丧母之痛的黄芷晴已抚平伤痛，但随著妈妈忌日将至，难免纠结。5月以往是她最喜欢的月份，因为是其生日月，惟去年5月痛失至亲后，连生日亦不愿庆祝。
怀念亡母之情。
过去1年，黄芷晴与爸爸的生活模式变化不大，因为妈妈恍如从没离开，两父女现时每日吃饭仍会多放1套碗筷并为妈妈夹菜，又每个月到墓前拜祭，而且经常会梦见母亲等。
梁洁华离世之后，黄芷晴常在家中发现蝴蝶踪影，而且一只比一只大，想像是妈妈化蝶治疗其心灵，令芷晴慢慢走出伤痛。
黄芷晴说：“很奇妙，妈妈走了之后会见到特别多蝴蝶和飞蛾，好像手掌那么大，什么颜色都有！妈妈本身很爱漂亮，好像她回来安慰我那样，而且每次见到的昆虫又很大个，觉得她过得很好。我不知道是否安慰自己的方法，不过当我不开心望著窗口，又真的会有只蝴蝶在那里。”
黄芷晴对其中一只蝴蝶的花纹最有印象，她之后翻查社交网，发现妈妈原来3年前曾分享同类蝴蝶的图片，十分巧合。
梁洁华生前曾分享同类蝴蝶图片，难怪令芷晴忆起亡母！
黄芷晴还透露在妈妈患病期间，曾有一刻想过赶快嫁人，不过现时单身的她过得幸福，反倒庆幸当时没有为嫁而嫁。
今年要过一个没有母亲的母亲节，芷晴担纲做妈妈的角色，为96岁的婆婆庆祝。问到妈妈生前是否最担心她没人照顾？她说：“父母最不担心这样，反而害怕我选错人，所以永远没有逼过我拍拖或者结婚。母亲还在生时，我有一刻想过结婚让她见到我出嫁，不过全部人都叫我不用急，觉得妈妈最想见我找到一个最好的。”
一次比一次大！
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